Avoiding consequences, hurting
people, and then just tuning out? Cyberbullying has become an increasing problem for children in our
country and Facebook has become an enabler for bullies.
The term Cyberbullying only applies
to children. Adults are Cyberharassed or Cyberstalked rather than bullied. Cyberbullying is when a child is harassed by another minor digitally
(Stopcyberbullying.org). Bullying used
to just remain on the playground and in schools, occasionally reaching farther
and, in some circumstances, causing death but is now spreading through the use
of New Media technology. With new media,
or more specifically Facebook, there also comes fewer consequences.
Bullying exists in many mediums,
from other social networking sites to being broadcast on television, so why is
Facebook important? Facebook has become
an enabler for bullying, giving the bully a new medium to commit their
actions. It is not just that bullying
takes place on Facebook but that it has so many ways to help it continue. Private messaging, mass sharing, and the
ability to remain anonymous add to this idea.
Despite all the changes Facebook is constantly receiving not much has
been done in terms of bullying other than the usual report this buttons and
blocking.
While anything posted online can be
saved and used as evidence, many people are not punished for what they do and
can remain anonymous when committing the act.
The ability to create a new account with relative ease makes it very
easy to remain anonymous. Anyone can
pretend to be someone else on Facebook.
There was once a case of a young girl’s information, including birthday,
school, family information and pictures taken of her, were used to make an
account that was entirely public, opening up the girls life to the world. The perpetrator denied it and people started
to avoid her because of it (Landau). Facebook’s
privacy settings also change so often that, despite trying to protect
themselves, a victim could end up missing something. It has also become much easier to spread
rumors and lies.
Before cyber-bullying, a rumor had to
be told over and over again to spread, but now it can just be made into a quick
post. The whole school could view it in
a couple hours instead of the time and effort it would take to spread it
regularly. On top of that, it can happen
at any time. There is not an eight to
four schedule for the internet like there is for school. If someone feels like being mean, they can
just jump online, whether it is five in the afternoon or two in the
morning. This ability to post at any
time also removes the time the bully would have had to wait and change their
mind. The instant gratitude lets them do
it without really considering what they are doing to the other person.
On top of the ability to spread
posts like wildfire, a bully can directly contact the victim with Facebook's messaging service. The bully does not
need the victims phone number, all that matters is that they are either
“friends” with the victim or the victim has lax security on their account. After that, they can send as many comments as
they want until the victim finally does something about it. Facebook also gives the effect of a lack of
inhibition.
While online, no one can hurt you
physically. Someone could say whatever
they want, and as long as the receiving party knows little about them, can
remain safe from violence. This has
created some pretty drastic statements being shared such as death threats,
encouraging suicide, and other threats of violence along with the typical name
calling and put downs. On top of this
anonymity, someone can send disturbing and threatening pictures to a victim.
With this new form of bullying, the
belief that victims should just get over it still exists. Despite the fact that it is harder to escape
this form of bullying without causing even more problems, it is still common
for people to expect the victim to just get over it and ignore it. This has always been a common attitude
towards bullying and has not changed over the course of time.
Works Cited
Landau, Elizabeth. "When Bullying Goes
High-tech - CNN.com." CNN.
Cable News Network, 15 Apr. 2013. Web. 29 Mar. 2015.
"STOP Cyberbullying: What Is Cyberbullying,
Exactly?" STOP
Cyberbullying: What Is Cyberbullying, Exactly? WiredSafety.org, n.d. Web. 29 Mar.
2015.